Giving Appreciation
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Posted on : 07-02-2011 | By : Cathy | In : Uncategorized
Tags: Appreciation, Communication, Giving, Gratitude
The challenge today is that parents are trying to get the best behavior out of their children possible while having to complete with outside influences, like TV, friends, and the internet. Following a few simple techniques will have kids repeating desired behaviors in no time.
First, mirror back your child’s strengths back to them by appreciating them. Say, “I appreciate you for….” The trick here is to be specific. Being general and just saying I appreciate you won’t have the impact you’re looking for.
Next, be sure you do this every day, at least once a day. Make it a habit, a natural, daily part of your communication with your son or daughter.
Finally, be timely. Give appreciations as quickly as possible after you see a desired behavior. Better yet, appreciate while they’re doing what you want them to do.
Using these simple, yet effective techniques will have you creating desired results in no time.
