“He invited his ex-wife for dinner, I knew it! Again I have a man who doesn’t tell me the truth. How do I create that over and over again? It is my biggest fear and it really makes me mad. I thought a lot about it today, why that is. Why do I time after time let my biggest fear become reality in my relationships?”
That was an email of a girlfriend, we have a similar problem, but still a bit different. In short: MEN.
This is what I wrote back:
“Manifesting your deepest fear is easy.
That’s how the Universe works.
You focus on your fear, very short but very intense.
Then you try to forget about it, and you focus your attention on other stuff. The fact that you put your focus elsewhere, makes that you give the Universe the opportunity to actually manifest that what you had been focusing on so intensely.
This way, you can also manifest things that you do want, but it is more complicated, because it is more difficult to distract your focus from it.
I try it with M, I want to trust that we will be together if we are meant to be, but I try as often as I can not to think of him. And that is easier if I just trust that it will be all right. Just as I trust that my heart will beat a next time and my lungs will fill up with air again.
And that seems to work…”
Actually, I do think this is a very short but very to-the-point description. I can add loads of theory and The Secret. But in fact this is all that counts.
Simple but not easy.
Next time I will tell you how I let go, because that was a real struggle (and sometimes still is).
And I would love to hear from you if you have trouble with “letting go”, and how you actually do that. Oh, and while you’re at it, put a comment in the comment box and click on “like” & “Tweet”. Because I like that very much if you do!
Thanks a bunch!
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